Relationships are over rated.

I was told to update, but really what I want to do is delete this damn thing although I am unable to actually do it cause I am stupid what can I say.
Relationships are so over rated. It is amazing how people can be so dependant on affection and attention that nothing else matters to them except who might be the next someone that they could potentially date. Because of this, they will knowingly put themselves in horrible situations which might give them some kind of false sense of security temporarily, but in the end they end up hurting themselves and just causing more problems. I have come to the conclusion none of that matters until you can trully be comfortable with yourself, alone, "single" if you will. It all stems from insecurity. The point is that you can't ever sincerely be happy with someone else, unless you are happy with yourself. Write that down as Van would say.